ReedeFox > 20/11/2019, 13:18
Quote:The whole thing was exciting and new. We all clicked very fast and there was a lot of chemistry – we were all involved that first night.There were definitely positives. Jacob and Megan are both older, while I had no experience.
Losing my virginity to a guy and a girl, being bisexual, I got to experience all aspects of my sexuality, too. Girls are soft, delicate and nurturing, while men are more dominant.
I’d never thought that much about how I would lose my virginity, but I guess it wasn’t what I predicted. I don’t have any regrets though – we’re still here three years later.
Quote:My family knew but they weren’t too happy. But I was very, very honest.Growing up, I’d warned my parents I wanted to marry someone their age, but I think they thought I was joking.I’ve always known I liked older guys – and girls too – so when I saw on Jacob’s website profile that he had a girlfriend, too, he checked all the boxes.
But I told my parents I was flying from Idaho to Utah for a first date with a couple I’d only Facetimed once before, so I do understand why they were concerned.
Quote:Megan had work, so Jacob and I went to their house and hung out, watching TV and got dinner.It was all very normal and that’s what we did when Megan finished work too.After spending our first night together Megan told me she loved me and she wanted me to move in – I was like, ‘Who knows?’
That first night I lost my virginity and yeah. I was nervous about the whole experience – but in a good way. The nerves were definitely worth it.I knew that I wanted to do it. I don’t think I could have had a better experience for my first time – it was so intimate and perfect.
Quote:I’d never been in a relationship before, let alone moved states for two people – one of whom was in his 40s and the other a girl.This was my first ever relationship, I was moving in after meeting them once, and being invited straight into a shared bedroom – it was a huge adjustment.It did feel weird at times, but I think anyone’s first relationship does, and at the same time, somehow it just worked.
Quote:There’s definitely been jealously throughout the relationship – it ebbs and flows. It’s not a feeling I want to have, so it’s something we work on as a triad.
It’s hard not to get those feelings when the other two are going on a date and you’re not invited, but you learn to accept it and let it flow. Once you come to realise it isn’t all about who likes who more – it’s about timing – it gets easier. For example, Megan works a lot at the moment, so Jacob and I see a lot more of each other. So, if he’s had a stressful day and needs to work it out we’ll deal with that solo in the bedroom.
But we have a healthy sex life together. One month we have sex five times a week, another month it will be once a week. I’m totally happy being with Jacob and Megan sexually for the rest of my life – I don’t care about anyone else.