ReedeFox > 08/11/2019, 14:01
Quote:People have this stereotype that it’s really naughty sex chat all the time. They think that girls choose to wear their pyjamas on the show, but must entertain whatever desires the caller may have. The fact is you can wear what you want, cover up if you want, wear your pyjamas or nice lingerie or a nice dress.
You just have to look presentable and be willing to sell a fantasy, because the whole point is so people who have desires and can’t live them through day to day can call you up.Whether that be someone to talk to or someone to express how they’re feeling, they’re lonely or they like the way you look and their girlfriend doesn’t look like that.
Customers can pay to enter a chat and can make requests – which can include removing her shoes, playing with her hair or bending over – but she says they must build rapport with her first. You do what you want. Some of the guys say ‘I want to see you doing this’, but it’s important they build a relationship or a friendship with you first.
Quote:You have to be willing to talk about anything and at the same token, if you are uncomfortable you can just log yourself off and go and take five minutes. I’m never ever uncomfortable there but they’re paying so you have to treat it like it’s customer service.
Quote:The way I see it, if you’re at home or you’re doing something in your day and you want to speak to a complete stranger that you like the look of, I think that’s a really brave thing to do, so I actually admire it.
It’s really flattering that someone would speak to me so I like to delve into why they’ve called. One guy honestly calls me for an hour to talk about my cat. He knows I love my cat and he likes to know how he is. They like to make friends out of you as well.
Quote:The whole nature of it is that you tease. I thought if I’m online or on telly getting nude, where does that end? People have already seen it so for me I don’t show a lot. I don’t get nude or naked and I keep it that way, because I am quite a private person anyway.
Quote:I’m just in my 20s having fun, getting to know myself and making sure that I am the best version of myself, and I think I’m on the right track to meet someone, so fingers crossed.
When I meet someone there seems to be more questions about the income and ‘what do you earn? How come you only work two, three times a week? Get a real job’ – that kind of thing.
It’s more been a threat because they don’t understand how a woman can earn more than them, and work less.They get a bit envious of it, a bit jealous and a bit unaware of what it entails so kind of try and attack it. I have had it, hence why I’m single and it’s not worth the drama at the moment. When I meet the right person they’d understand anyway.
Quote:They buy you things, perfume, shoes, outfits you might want to wear. They offer to give you money but I don’t like to say yes, because I like to be aware of what I’m earning. If someone gave me a lot of money it’s a bit unfair on them, but it has been offered but I don’t accept it. You make a list online, like an Amazon wish list, and they would buy it off there. That’s the way it would be done.
Quote:I don’t really go out. I don’t drink, I don’t do drugs and so TV and just doing myself up and feeling nice about myself is my escapism, my thing to do for fun.
It’s a bit of an escape and a way to feel nice. In society, you don’t feel nice. People are horrible, aren’t they?
I think if you can go to work and have people call you up and say how nice you look and ask you nice questions about yourself, it actually does a lot for your self-esteem.